I’ve been getting quite a few requests for this link, so I thought it was about time to put it up again:
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/engender_partners/info
It’s open to all kinds of partners: wives of crossdressers, partners of people considering transition, partners of people who have transitioned, those who just found out, those who have known for years, those who fall anywhere on the line of being more or less accepting. Often people come on and read through past bios of other partners and start up one-on-one correspondences, but we have a lot of conversations as a group, too, that may be useful to new people. We talk about sex and anger and depression and all the related stuff being experienced by us and by our trans beloveds.
You will, if you join, send in a short bio about yourself and your situation.