A couple who’ve been together for 18 years went on vacation, on a cruise, with three of their four children. One of them had a massive stroke as their ship was about to leave port, which meant she received medical care at Miami’s Jackson Memorial Hospital, where her partner was told the couple made the mistake of being in “an anti-gay city and state” and refused to let her partner in to see her, but for five minutes, as she was dying.
She died about 18 hours later. Both women were only 39 years old.
This is what DOMA & all this other anti-gay bullshit leads to, but please queer folks, fill out your healthcare proxies. You can find NYS’s here, and here in .pdf format. If people have or find links for these forms in their state, please post them below, or send them to me via email & I can post them.
More instructions and state-specific forms below the break.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Health_care_proxy
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Health care forms may differ in structure from state to state and pre-made forms are not compulsory as long as certain guidelines are met. The common guidelines include:[3]
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http://estate.findlaw.com/estate-pla…ing-wills.html
http://www.nolo.com/articleStateList…9/292/295/ART/
http://www.doyourproxy.org/webtool.php
http://www.expertlaw.com/library/est…_attorney.html
(Thanks to Donna T, Dana, Donna, & Joanne for the help)
Kansas forms: http://www.kansashealthethics.org/index.php?topic=DPAfaq