Cleaning Resolve Dissolves

Cleaning in an air-conditioned apartment is very odd, indeed, as eventually the time comes when you have to bring a box of old books or a bag of garbage outside & then you’re hit by the wall of heat, you go limp and sweaty instantaneously, all your resolve dripping away like the sweat off the end of your nose.

Raised by Ants

While I was poking around project playlist last week in order to bring you a few of my favorite inspiring tracks, I found a reference to some gender-bending of the 80s. A b-side of a Dead or Alive single I don’t care about (although of course Pete Burns is still around & doing hir thing), but the other b-side mentioned was “Greta X” by Adam Ant. The song was written in the late 70s but only produced/released in the mid 80s, and it’s about crossdressing:

I’m a joyous glad TV
Why don’t you come TV with me?
I know a girl who loves to dress me
Up like this and then caress me
To remind me of the way
I used to go both night and day
In femininity there’s pride
We’ll marry soon, I’ll be the bride

& People wonder how I wound up this way, listening to such things at the tender age of 15!

& Yes, I have wondered if Adam’s a CD. I doubt it – he wrote songs about people into rubber and BDSM, too. (Though of course he could be into those things, as well, as far as I know; Amanda Donohue knows for sure but I bet she’s not talking.)

Reasons to be Cheerful, Pt. 6

There’s a nutty little song by the late Ian Dury (& his Blockheads) called “Reasons to be Cheerful” that’s basically a list of the smaller things that, when you think of them, might encourage you to get out of bed in the morning.

I thought it might be appropriate for me to make my own list, since as of today, we’ve been married for six years, and I’m in a good mood, & feeling grateful for a bunch of things in my life.

  1. Aurora, sweet as pie, trying to con me out of a piece of cheese when I go to get the milk for my tea
  2. Songs like “Reasons to be Cheerful” but also “Birds Fly” by Icicle Works, or “Right Here, Right Now” by Jesus Jones, or “Hot Love” by T. Rex = worth endless listens that always make me happy
  3. The Bangladeshi guy who runs the grocery on our corner who’s probably been hipper about Betty’s transness than just about anyone
  4. Watching my friend Doug watch Rufus in concert
  5. Getting emails from people I can help
  6. My dad’s dumb jokes
  7. Keith Olbermann
  8. Dumb cat videos on YouTube
  9. Betty, of course, in all her various forms, but especially when she’s just wearing socks
  10. The Elephant Sanctuary (who prove something good can & does exist in the world)
  11. ice cream
  12. the French (who are, in general, vastly under-appreciated in America at least)
  13. my earth shoes
  14. tea. earl gray. hot.
  15. & on the same note: Clive Staples Lewis, Neil Gaiman, Jane Langton, & Rod Serling, for telling the tales that have shaped my life. (There are a few others, but you get the picture.)

So now, go make a list of just a few things that make you happy while you’re listening to these songs that always lighten my mood. Continue reading “Reasons to be Cheerful, Pt. 6”

Turn Up that AC

Just a tip: put your air conditioner on 80 degrees to save money on your electric bill. You don’t have to be cool, just not hot.

Check out a bunch of other smart, green tips on how to use air conditioning best (& most cost-effectively), and otherwise check out ways to save energy in the summer (& prevent those local brownouts).

& Unplug your chargers! That’s a new one I just learned. When you’re not actually charging your iPod / cellphone / PDA, you’re using energy just by leaving the charger plugged in.

Penguin Cam

The Monterey Aquarium has a live penguin cam you can watch on your lunch hour, or theirs – tune in at 10:30am or 3PM to watch them eat.

Happy solstice, & happy birthday to my friend Lara.

Happy Birthday to Us!

Today is our 38th birthday. I have no idea when I got so old, or how it is Betty has managed to remain so much younger.

Mom & Pops

A very happy 55th wedding anniversary to my two fantastic parents, today. 55 years! Imagine.