Skip the Makeup has a good blog post up about Pat Dye, the 31 year old who has allegedly pursued and seduced a 15 year old girl.
That’s the huge problem: not the gender, but the age gap. Impersonating a minor to have sex with a minor is criminal.
Being trans or clocked for the gender you’re not is not a crime, or immoral, or anything like that.
So maybe let’s keep the two things entirely separate, okay?